Never was I interested to discuss this until I myself am a victim. Interesting to know how a futuristic mindset, full of dreams, opens the door to the past bypassing the present. Absurd? Read on for more.
Indian weddings. A showcase of pride. Parents are the hosts. You are unmistakably wrong if you think their “to-wed” children are their pride. All Indian parents, irrespective of who, what, where, how they are, they have dreams about their children's wedding. Not the wedding plans that I am concerned about but choosing the right partner itself. Absurd 2. The only Unity for which the Thackerays may get along with rest of India. Fundamental right to marry whoever we want. The need for India today, more than any nuclear deal.
My entry.
I told my mom about a girl who I am interested in, of course to tie-the-knot. Not-so-surprisingly she was unhappy. Although she likes the girl, my mom thinks that our Gods may not like her Gods. In complex terms, the girl belongs to a different religion. Now I have to convince not only my mom but also the God, oops Gods! My mom somehow feels very obliged to answer the society if at all she agrees. Absurd 3. This could only happen in a country where no corrupt politician is obliged to answer anyone. We call it democracy.
My kith and kin were surprised and shocked on hearing this. Thanks to the fact that I was a calm and nice guy at home. I am afraid to marry anyone now for that matter. Take a moment. Imagine the day my wife announces that she is pregnant. All my kith and kin would be surprised and shocked again. Total chaos. Some of them might have to be rushed to emergency. Rest of them wondering how did I do and what was I thinking. Absurd 4. Only because I was a calm and nice guy at home. I wanted to tell them that I am calm but not stupid. Only that I couldn’t. Hey I am nice guy too.
After all these, I wonder. What did I really say? I like a girl. What could possibly have been their reactions if it was “I like a guy”? Beyond my imagination. It takes at least a thousand nuclear deals to transform a cat into a tiger.
Too many cooks in Indian wedding. Both literally and metaphorically. Convince many to marry one. Time is flying. Let me start my convincing with Absurd 3. Do you know where God lives?
Indian weddings. A showcase of pride. Parents are the hosts. You are unmistakably wrong if you think their “to-wed” children are their pride. All Indian parents, irrespective of who, what, where, how they are, they have dreams about their children's wedding. Not the wedding plans that I am concerned about but choosing the right partner itself. Absurd 2. The only Unity for which the Thackerays may get along with rest of India. Fundamental right to marry whoever we want. The need for India today, more than any nuclear deal.
My entry.
I told my mom about a girl who I am interested in, of course to tie-the-knot. Not-so-surprisingly she was unhappy. Although she likes the girl, my mom thinks that our Gods may not like her Gods. In complex terms, the girl belongs to a different religion. Now I have to convince not only my mom but also the God, oops Gods! My mom somehow feels very obliged to answer the society if at all she agrees. Absurd 3. This could only happen in a country where no corrupt politician is obliged to answer anyone. We call it democracy.
My kith and kin were surprised and shocked on hearing this. Thanks to the fact that I was a calm and nice guy at home. I am afraid to marry anyone now for that matter. Take a moment. Imagine the day my wife announces that she is pregnant. All my kith and kin would be surprised and shocked again. Total chaos. Some of them might have to be rushed to emergency. Rest of them wondering how did I do and what was I thinking. Absurd 4. Only because I was a calm and nice guy at home. I wanted to tell them that I am calm but not stupid. Only that I couldn’t. Hey I am nice guy too.
After all these, I wonder. What did I really say? I like a girl. What could possibly have been their reactions if it was “I like a guy”? Beyond my imagination. It takes at least a thousand nuclear deals to transform a cat into a tiger.
Too many cooks in Indian wedding. Both literally and metaphorically. Convince many to marry one. Time is flying. Let me start my convincing with Absurd 3. Do you know where God lives?
